I hate to admit this, but I found myself acting out a negative cultural value recently. Translation: I behaved in a way that is common to our society, but contrary to biblical principles. (Ever find yourself there?) It all started after work one day last week. I see that my Kindle cover has arrived, so I open the package, all happy that now I can protect my new device. But alas! The cover is too big. Frustrated, I start searching for a better cover on line, despite being really tired. It takes some time to find what I am looking for at the right price. Continue Reading
How This Favorite Psalm Reveals the Patterns of Your Life
You probably know it by heart. Many a soldier huddled in a fox hole has spoken its words of solace while in the thick of battle. Many a sick loved one has clung to its life-giving words on the comforting lips of a visitor. I took a fresh look at Psalm 23 recently and found myself paying particular attention to the verbs in it. The Shepherd of whom this poetic song speaks is anything but passive. Watch what he does for the "sheep" (you and me). He: Makes me lie down in green pastures Leads me beside still waters Refreshes my soul Then Continue Reading
Why Now is Not a Good Time to Give Up
Ever had one of those days when everything clicks into place and you remember why you are on the planet? It's rare, right? I've encountered far more of the other days. You know -- days of drudgery, of questioning the trajectory of your life. Days of hitting your head against a brick wall. But last week, I had the ultimate good day at the office. I oversee the counseling at Life Choices Clinic, a pregnancy help center, where people can explore their options when facing a pregnancy decision. We provide accurate information and emotional support Continue Reading
Why Acceptance Shouldn’t be Your Highest Aim
I couldn't believe it. I actually had a shot at getting into Lori's club! My next-door neighbor was popular among us first-graders. On this particular day, a bunch of us were gathered on her driveway. White go-go boots clacking, Lori circled us, pondering who among us was worthy of being chosen. I held my breath. My mother would never let me wear white go-go boots. --she didn't believe in spending money on trendy clothing fads. But if I could be in the club, I could hang out with those who did get to wear them. Popularity by association -- it just Continue Reading