As a kid, I attended churches numbering less than a hundred people. Back then, no one was talking about church growth. We didn’t try to be “seeker sensitive.” Most folks belonged to smallish churches. Photo by Maja Petric on Unsplash I’m not saying those were the good ole’ days; I’m simply saying the average church goer didn’t think about the size of their church or why it should be bigger. Things changed radically over the 70s and 80s. With the church growth movement and the rise of mega churches, we began hearing terms like “reach” and “influence” and “impact”—terms Continue Reading
The Bible doesn’t teach that husbands should lead their wives
Countless popular Christian books, sermons, and Bible studies promote the doctrine that husbands should act as the leaders of their homes. Complementarians have possessed the lion’s share in the world of Christian publishing over the last few decades—and books can shape collective consciousness. Does an idea’s popularity and market saturation make it correct? The only passage in the entire Bible which describes the rule of man over woman is Genesis 3:16, “To the woman he said, ‘I will make your pains in childbearing very severe; with painful labor you will give birth to children. Continue Reading
3 things complementarians should stop saying about egalitarians
Christians generally take one of two views regarding women’s roles in the church—either the complementarian view, or the egalitarian (or biblical mutualist) view. Complementarians believe men and women share equal value, but have different God-given roles. (What this means in plain English is women are restricted from certain leadership roles in complementarian churches because of their gender.) Egalitarians believe men and women are created for partnership and should be treated equally, including serving as leaders in the church. In the ongoing debate on this topic, I’ve Continue Reading
Prophecy is not a toy (so handle it with care)
Through the gift of prophecy, the Holy Spirit offers followers of Jesus strength, encouragement and comfort for their trials (1 Cor. 14:1-5). Prophecy also serves as a powerful weapon for spiritual warfare (1 Tim. 1:18). That said, powerful weapons require handling with care. I became familiar with prophecy decades ago in a small, start-up fellowship. Most of us were in our twenties. What we lacked in wisdom, we made up for with zeal, especially regarding prophetic words. Unfortunately, we weren’t taught how to deliver words within the healthy guidelines provided by Scripture. Turns Continue Reading