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Everything Happens For a Reason… or Not.

February 25, 2014 by Susanne Maynes 1 Comment

Have you ever caught yourself repeating a catchy phrase you’ve heard, but haven’t really thought through? Just because something is oft-repeated doesn’t mean it’s actually so.

As followers of Christ, we need to put today’s common sayings through the filter of God’s word to see if they are true.

According to Colossians 2:8, some philosophies are empty and deceptive. They come from the elemental spirits of this world, not from Christ. Here are two examples:

1. “Everything happens for a reason.”

Romans 8:28 says, “And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose.” Christians believe God is in control of all things and will ultimately use even hardship for our greater good.

However, many difficulties are the result of sin. We mess up, plus we live on a broken planet. God’s original plan never included sickness, death, or relational discord.  Not everything that happens is what God wants.

Passive acceptance of circumstances is not the same thing as finding real peace in Christ. We can respond to hardship with prayer praise, or repentance.

Faith is active, not passive. 

2. “It was meant to be.”

This fatalistic point of view assigns power to the impersonal idea of the universe rather than to a personal God. It allows decision-making based on feelings rather than moral law.

One example of bad fruit from fatalism is the notion that there is a soul mate out there for each of us; therefore, if we happen to be married to the wrong person, it’s okay to divorce them when we find the relationship that was “meant to be.”

God wants obedience, not blind acceptance of “fate.”

Stuff happens. Some things are the result of our choices; some are random happenings on a broken planet.

The good news? God orders the steps of his children, and brings beauty from ashes

5 Things Not to Say When Jesus Picks You

February 19, 2014 by Susanne Maynes Leave a Comment

Jesus regularly invites us on adventures, but we often hesitate for some pretty short-sighted reasons. Is it just me? Or do some of these sound familiar? “I’m not adequate.”  None of us are up for what God calls us to. He seems to choose us for our weaknesses more than for our strengths. On the flip side of this, you might be very surprised at how much is on your spiritual resume. Do you know Christ? Have you read and studied the Bible at all? Heard any sermons? Boom. You already have something to offer someone else. “I need to be healed first.” Jesus is happy to heal you from unresolved Continue Reading

Five Reasons You Need “Not Marked”

February 11, 2014 by Susanne Maynes Leave a Comment

She was only five years old when it started. Two teenage brothers came to her babysitter’s house and offered to take her for a while. Mary went with them, an innocent lamb. They took her to forests, to ravines, to their own bedroom. They took her again and again. They took her innocence and scarred her soul. But the story does not end there. Mary survived those episodes, along with the pain of rejection, poverty, and dealing with her parents’ addictions. She bravely tells of the redemption she found, and is finding, in Jesus. She tells her story not to be dramatic or sensational, but Continue Reading

Five Things Jesus Does For a Hot Mess

February 5, 2014 by Susanne Maynes Leave a Comment

Ever feel discouraged about your life, wishing you could get it together and see some progress instead of just chaos? I get it. That’s me, too. Those of us who serve Jesus are works in progress. Your story is far from over, and the end result will be stunning – but the process is not pretty. Kind of like the water damage we had two months ago. One harmless gurgle in the bathroom wall, and the next thing you know, we have to rip out tile, sheet rock, vinyl, sub floor and fixtures. For eight weeks we made multiple trips to Home Depot and tripped over stuff. For eight weeks we had Continue Reading

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