Ever had one of those days when everything clicks into place and you remember why you are on the planet? It's rare, right? I've encountered far more of the other days. You know -- days of drudgery, of questioning the trajectory of your life. Days of hitting your head against a brick wall. But last week, I had the ultimate good day at the office. I oversee the counseling at Life Choices Clinic, a pregnancy help center, where people can explore their options when facing a pregnancy decision. We provide accurate information and emotional support Continue Reading
Why Acceptance Shouldn’t be Your Highest Aim
I couldn't believe it. I actually had a shot at getting into Lori's club! My next-door neighbor was popular among us first-graders. On this particular day, a bunch of us were gathered on her driveway. White go-go boots clacking, Lori circled us, pondering who among us was worthy of being chosen. I held my breath. My mother would never let me wear white go-go boots. --she didn't believe in spending money on trendy clothing fads. But if I could be in the club, I could hang out with those who did get to wear them. Popularity by association -- it just Continue Reading
Why Your Faith Doesn’t Always Need to Feel Victorious
In times of trial, should believers cling to the promises of God and fight all the harder? Or should they allow their souls to rest, trusting that God is fighting for them? Yes, and yes. It seems there are two camps within Christianity when it comes to dealing with hard times. On the one hand, there's the faith response. When hardship comes, faith-oriented people say, we should hold fast to God's promises. We have an enemy, they remind us. We need to actively war against him. And we are destined to be victorious if we exercise our faith muscles in Continue Reading
What You Can Learn from Long-Term Lovers
With Valentine's Day just around the corner, what do you think of when you hear the word "love?" Is it romance and knights on white horses and living happily ever after? Or, as the teapot in "Beauty and the Beast" put it, "Flowers and chocolates and promises you don't intend to keep?" There's nothing wrong with red roses and passionate feelings, but our culture has lost sight of the bigger picture when it comes to love. To regain some perspective, it's wise for us to look to older couples who have walked the walk for a few decades. Last weekend, Continue Reading