Ever had a conversation with yourself about whether it's worth it to try to right a wrong that happened a long time ago? It starts like this: You recall something you said or did, or failed to say or do, and you know your actions hurt another person. But time has gone by. The relationship seems to be functioning comfortably enough. After all, time heals all wounds, right? So you say to yourself, It would just be awkward to bring it up now. It's been years. Why pick open the scab? The relationship is doing okay. However, the Holy Spirit is relentless. You keep thinking Continue Reading
How to Teach Your Kids to Read the Bible
You love the Word of God. You've developed a habit of reading it daily, because you know you'll grow in understanding God and his ways. How do you communicate this love for the Word to your children, who may not even be able to read yet? First, provide a children's Bible story book appropriate to the age of your child. Read from their "Bible" to them on a regular basis, and refer to what you've read as you do life together. One caveat about children's Bible story books -- they are not the whole Bible, nor can they take the place of an accurate translation. Christians often make Continue Reading
Why Giving Up Now is Not a Good Plan (Or Even an Option)
Eyes downcast, Jamé exhales slowly. Pain flickers across her countenance. It's ten in the morning, and she's been laboring steadily for three hours. Never is a woman more vulnerable-- or more powerful -- than she is during childbirth. Sam kisses her forehead, laces his fingers through hers, murmurs encouragement. Never does a man feel more helpless than when his beloved gives birth -- and never is he more helpful, simply by being at her side. It's the being, not the doing. The power of presence. This is his gift to her. The two are becoming three, another holy family Continue Reading
How Every Parent Feels Like Mary or Joseph
Are you stopping to breathe this Christmas season? Taking a moment to snuggle with your child and gaze at the glow and sparkle of the tree? I hope so. Christmas is about wonder, and every mom or dad who's held newborn son or daughter, marveling at tiny features, knows what wonder is. My newest grandson, Zaccai, was born December 17th. I'm experiencing a fresh wave of wonder myself. Every child is a stunning miracle, a priceless gift. Every baby is a blessing. At the same time, every birth puts the fear of God in us. How shall I raise this little one? What if I get this whole Continue Reading